2. Generosity -- Give of yourself, sharing time, things, and emotions.
3. Acceptance -- Commit yourself to patience, forbearance, tolerance, and accepting your mate not as a fantasy object--but a real person.
4. Respect -- Your mate is a gateway to God and so deserves your respect, trust and support.
5. Honesty -- the hard work of communication, revealing yourself, truth-telling, listening (these are big practices)--all lead to authenticity.
6. Empathy -- Genuine love involves working hard to understand, and share, the feelings of your loved one. And to offer compassion and caring even for feelings you don't "get."
7. Play -- Don't take your love or yourself so seriously. Remember to leave room for fun, whimsy, joy and meaninglessness too.
8. Passion -- True passion is not the romantic fascination we associate with teenage crushes; it's a deep wonderment and interest in the other.
9. Mystery -- Being open to not knowing, to not having it all worked out, to the discovery of being together.
10. Mission -- Strengthen your bond by having some shared "mission," purpose, direction.
~ By Lama Surya Das ~
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